There is no game, battle, even competition, perhaps unless with yourself. But men you will not win if you continue to fight with the world and yourself. And you especially won’t win against women, surrender is the only path to victory.
Physically surrender, think and feel the weight of yourself and the other, be in the moment by being with the breath and each others movements, on the dance floor, in the park, a simple touch of union with the breath.
Physically Surrender at the feet of your beloved. I’ve never done it and I’m single but what does that mean? I can surrender to myself and my machismo traits.